Divorce Coaching and Life Coaching

The number one thing I wish I would have had readily available to me was a life coach who specialized in separations, divorces and post divorces. 

The countless hours I poured into the mental warfare of what was happening…

Questioning the chaos and nonstop contentiousness. 

The fears and honestly the moments of breaking down saying I would just go back to the cycle to simply stop the madness during a divorce/separation or break up. 

I can look back and applaud myself for making it out on my own two feet, but I had a support system that most don’t and I have the determination of a Honey Badger refusing to stay down for long. 

All our stories are different, but you do not have to be alone during yours.

Your closest loved ones may simply not understand of have the support and answers you are seeking but that doesn’t mean they don’t care it simply means they do not understand for themselves. 

During the down time of Covid, I decided to follow that calling and learn how to navigate through it not just for myself and my kids but for so many of us out here that need answers and guidance. 

That is why I am here for YOU. 

I'M READY COMPLIMENTARY CALL 30- to 60-minute session. 

Things are complicated right now, so let's keep this simple: You tell me what's going on and what you're seeking. I tell you how we can work together. Then we decide if we are a good fit. 

Simple, no-pressure, confidential conversation.

Disclaimer 

* To prevent conflicts and any confusion on legal advice if you choose to utilize both services for Legal Document Preparation and Divorce Coaching Support your services will be dispersed amongst separate professionals. You will receive the same equal, dedicated and compassionate support but it will be from separately assigned humans. Prices are not listed simply because a lot of families are on a case-by-case basis and may require a sliding scale. This can be discussed. Services are not free, but it is understandable that during the hardest parts of your life financial pressures are not a needed stressor that you should have to take on. This will all be discussed during your consultation. *

Divorce can often feel shameful, overwhelming or scary, but it doesn’t have to be. Divorce does not define your identity, instead let it be a declaration of independence. 

The New Beginning Coaching helps guide you on this path from the end of an era to the start of a new beginning. In New Beginnings Coaching, you will participate in six modules over a 6 week period to help bridge the sometimes-painful gap between ending the era to starting that new beginning.

Ability to move on-

Naturally, your emotions also take center stage during divorce – which is expected, and so very normal (divorce is hard!). 

In this first module, we teach you how to manage your emotions towards your ex-partner. 

Without this critical skill, your emotions will cloud every conversation, conflict, and important child-focused decision you’ll have to make both during your divorce process and throughout the entirety of your co-parenting future.

Setting-

The biggest mistake divorced couples make is keeping themselves stuck in the marital cycle of communication which is largely rooted in codependency. 

If you’re getting divorced, it’s very likely that your communication style is already unhealthy, which can be devastating to co-parented children. 

In this module, we teach you how to master your communication with your ex by setting critical boundaries, which will make communicating with even the most high-conflict ex-spouse a lot less difficult and will reduce the anxiety your children feel about living a co-parented life.

While divorcing is an adult activity, it can very often wreak havoc on the children who end up caught in the middle by parents who do not adopt a child-first mindset. 

In this two-part module, we teach you how divorce really affects the children, how to make decisions from a child-first mindset, how to avoid exposing them to ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences), and how to keep your children out of the middle of your divorce.

Co-parenting is not the same for everyone. 

What might work for one family might not work for yours, so this module is designed to give you the strategies for hacking co-parenting. 

Whether it’s figuring out how to keep track of your children’s “things” in two homes, who goes to what school events, how to handle birthday parties and holidays, or just how to maintain consistency in two homes, these co-parenting life hacks will make your life a whole lot easier.

The number one reason why divorced parents end up back in court is because of poorly

written parenting plans. 

Your parenting plan needs to be designed in a way that works best for your family, but how do you do that when you don’t know what your options are? 

In this module we will give you a healthy dose of insight into what a well-done parenting plan looks like to ensure you stay out of court after your divorce is final.

Up to 24 confidential, conversational one-on-one sessions customized to your goals.

Strategy sessions that include clear and simple takeaways in one concise Power List, outside-the-box problem solving and professional editorial review of texts, email and documents. 

Thoughtful questions, deep listening and compassionate support. 

Text check ins. 

Full access to my professional referral network of top-tier attorneys, financial advisors, therapists, home organizers and stylists, personal chefs and trainers. 

Plus, I'll give you access to my month-long creative challenge, full of storytelling, art and thought exercises to center, calm and inspire human’s during divorce.