Don't Walk, Run!

As your best friend in divorce, I will listen to you without judgement making sure it feels natural and organic but most of all confidential. You and I are the only ones who will know about your call, questions and concerns.

This will be exhausting for you. Utterly draining and at times some of your closest loved ones will be tired of hearing about it. I will not get worn out by your story, the drama or any of the emotions that seem to swirl around you all the time. Instead, my goal is to help teach you how to live through this without letting it consume all of you. In the most loving and supportive way possible.

 I will give you my honest opinion on whether getting divorced or not get divorced is on your roadmap based off our discussions. If you are honest and transparent and I see room for change and resolution I will encourage and give resources and tools to you to help you not only heal and grow as an individual but to help heal and grow with your partner. Divorce is always such a quick go to, and the grass is not always greener on the other side so if I can help you think through your many options, and guide you to making a calm, clear and confident decision that is all your own, I will. What I will not do is not try to sell you on joining the divorce club just because I am a DivorceCoach. Remember I do Life Coaching as well and my goal is for your whole life to be healthy, happy, and safe. 

I need you to be very clear about how I can help you, what you are seeking and in retrospect I will make sure to cover what coaching entails, so you are not caught off guard. This is your journey, and you are in the driver seat.

I am incredibly straight-forward, honest to a fault, compassionate, empathetic, and completely on your side. I will play devil's advocate when the time calls for it not because I am not on your side but if I am solely in this for you, we need to look at the black, gray and white because all variables do always matter.

Being a human, who's next step is law school I can tell you firsthand I spent far too much money on my divorce, and I am here to share how investing in coaching can save you money in your divorce both financially, and emotionally. 

I don’t want my friends and family to judge me.

this is all so overwhelming.

What will divorce mean for them?

I don't know how.

I don't know how I'll afford it.

I have contacted someone or started the divorce process. 

I need support. I was blindsided.

I'm lost and confused. What do I do first?

Someone who has been through this process. I understand divorce but I just want someone to bounce things off of. 

 once I make the call or get the process started?